5 Reasons I Don't Like Living in Korea - Willful and Wildhearted

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Willful and Wildhearted: I don't like living in Korea. There, I said it. Despite my best efforts, I struggle to find comfort here, a stark contrast to the dreams fulfilled of traveling afforded by my savings. Korea has been a learning curve, nurturing and redefining my inner growth, yet it's not a country I envision settling down in long-term. This narrative isn't an attack on Korean culture; it's merely a tapestry woven from my experiences.

Korea's Vain Culture

The omnipresent beauty standards and the pursuance of perfection can be overwhelming in Korea. From public primping sessions to conversations dominated by physical appraisals, societal pressures weigh heavy. Despite its prowess in cosmetic advancement, this singular focus on aesthetics obscures the inherent worth of individuality and natural beauty, a paradigm I find deeply unsettling.

Korea's Stress Culture

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In Korea, intensity encapsulates the essence of life. From a tender age, there's an inherent rush that pushes children into relentless academic rigor. Despite reform to the operating hours of cram schools, the narrative remains largely unchanged. The workforce suffers too, grappling with exhaustive hours and woefully low productivity rates, a systemic stress that's hard to ignore.

Korea’s Lack of Individuality

Collectivist ideals pave the daily societal routes in Korea, often at the personal cost of self-expression and critical thought. Uniformity is coveted, and while it fosters a strong sense of community, it can stifle creativity and innovation. For someone who relishes uniqueness, this can be a disheartening aspect of life here.

Korea can be Highly Discriminatory

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The notion of pure bloodline and national supremacy permeate certain quarters of Korean society, leading to discriminatory practices and a deep-seated "us vs. them" mentality. Despite legal measures to curb such behaviors, the daily realities for many expats reveal a persistent struggle with acceptance and equal treatment.

Korea Cultivates Childish Behavior

"Aegyo," Korea's social currency of cuteness, translates into adulthood with a penchant for petulance intended to charm or manipulate. This cultural fabric clashes with my core values, overshadowing the formidable and dignified matriarchs who exemplify strength and resilience. It's a stark contrast that's hard to reconcile with.

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